Connections carry a life of their own. Influenced by the particular soul path, history, relational heritage, psyche and environment of each individual involved, one might ask: What is this relationship's center of gravity? What is created, lost, released or absorbed within its walls?What are the main pillars that comprise the foundation of this connection? What does the other person invite each individual to heal, grow, change & surrender within themselves? To presume the unique life of a particular relationship meets each individual's fantasies, hopes, projections & desires might be to miss the honest gifts, opportunities & challenges of what's really there.
Areas within relationship asking for change will present themselves in various ways. Intimacy Issues. Harmful Approaches to Conflict. Un-repaired Ruptures. Insecure Attachment Styles. Un-Coupling, Separation & Divorce. Infidelity. Communication Breakdowns. Different Life Visions. Poorly Defined Boundaries. Shame & Hiding. Enmeshment, Isolation & Codependency. . .
Wilfred Bion astutely observed that "blame is a failure of understanding." In the wounding that often lays at the core of our humanity, we struggle to recognize, give and receive love well. Change befriends us when we we allow greater honesty within ourselves and with each other ~ and when we are open to the grief and gifts before us in the face of another. When we slowly begin developing greater clarity, grace, accountability, tolerance and forgiveness...
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